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There are so many things to plan for a wedding, choosing your bridesmaids should be the least of your worries and a no-brainer, right? Wrong. Wait till it really happens, and you’ll understand just how not-simple it is.
Planning a wedding is stressful, and even with a good wedding planner, there is still a lot of pressure to make your big day as perfect as you want it to be. This is where you need all the support you can get. If you re surrounded by a good support system within your bridal party, it can make all the difference.
One week before the wedding, I had a mental and emotional meltdown. There was still SO MUCH to be done, and due to my husband’s basket usa insane working hours and workload, I was basically handling everything myself. The stress was too much to take and I sat down on the balcony floor and started crying. More like wailing, basket usa to be honest.
Somehow, one of my bridesmaids sensed something basket usa amiss from my Whatsapp messages basket usa and called me. It was the right time coz I was done with my self-pity episode and needed some coaxing and encouragement. And who else better than one who has gone through it.
My girl friends are go-getters, planners, creative thinkers, doers. Together, we have achieved the most difficult of tasks with astounding results. I knew they would be capable of handling the entire wedding, but because I had a wedding planner, most of the planning basket usa was left to her. I didn’t want to make my girl friends work too hard haha. I wanted them to be more of my support system than my laborers, even though I know they’re the 赴汤蹈火在所不辞 kind of girl friends.
So if you don’t intend to get a wedding planner, will your bridesmaids be willing to take time out to help you with the planning? I have heard of bridesmaids not contributing to the planning, basket usa and even MIA on the big day. You wouldn’t want someone irresponsible to be given responsibilities, do you?
What roles do you have for your bridesmaids? Do you need them to dress shop with you? Are you decisive enough to make decisions basket usa by yourself or do you constantly need the opinions of others? What are each of them going to do on the big day, who to go where at which point in time?
For me, I didn’t need an entourage for dress-shopping, and for most things I made the decisions with the help of my planner. I really only needed a support group, and to know that if sh*t happens, they will always be there for me.
Follow your heart and desires. Keep in mind that this is your day and everyone basket usa will eventually understand. Choose who you’re closest to and not out of obligation or reciprocity, but do consider the repercussions of leaving someone out especially if family is involved.
If you expected someone basket usa to say yes but got a no, don’t be offended. Chances are it’s not YOU. That person might have personal reasons and it’s good to be honest about it upfront rather than bail out at the last minute. It’s a great honor to be asked to be a bridesmaid, so try and understand the reason behind it.
Simin’s reason was that she was not part of the clique with my other girl friends and was afraid that she’s the odd one out. Her worries were unfounded because she very easily assimilated into the group.
In continuation to Point 4, it’s much easier if your bridesmaids all already know one another, but it’s okie even if they don’t! It’s better they don’t know each other than hate each other. Haha.
Besides, the people you choose
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There are so many things to plan for a wedding, choosing your bridesmaids should be the least of your worries and a no-brainer, right? Wrong. Wait till it really happens, and you’ll understand just how not-simple it is.
Planning a wedding is stressful, and even with a good wedding planner, there is still a lot of pressure to make your big day as perfect as you want it to be. This is where you need all the support you can get. If you re surrounded by a good support system within your bridal party, it can make all the difference.
One week before the wedding, I had a mental and emotional meltdown. There was still SO MUCH to be done, and due to my husband’s basket usa insane working hours and workload, I was basically handling everything myself. The stress was too much to take and I sat down on the balcony floor and started crying. More like wailing, basket usa to be honest.
Somehow, one of my bridesmaids sensed something basket usa amiss from my Whatsapp messages basket usa and called me. It was the right time coz I was done with my self-pity episode and needed some coaxing and encouragement. And who else better than one who has gone through it.
My girl friends are go-getters, planners, creative thinkers, doers. Together, we have achieved the most difficult of tasks with astounding results. I knew they would be capable of handling the entire wedding, but because I had a wedding planner, most of the planning basket usa was left to her. I didn’t want to make my girl friends work too hard haha. I wanted them to be more of my support system than my laborers, even though I know they’re the 赴汤蹈火在所不辞 kind of girl friends.
So if you don’t intend to get a wedding planner, will your bridesmaids be willing to take time out to help you with the planning? I have heard of bridesmaids not contributing to the planning, basket usa and even MIA on the big day. You wouldn’t want someone irresponsible to be given responsibilities, do you?
What roles do you have for your bridesmaids? Do you need them to dress shop with you? Are you decisive enough to make decisions basket usa by yourself or do you constantly need the opinions of others? What are each of them going to do on the big day, who to go where at which point in time?
For me, I didn’t need an entourage for dress-shopping, and for most things I made the decisions with the help of my planner. I really only needed a support group, and to know that if sh*t happens, they will always be there for me.
Follow your heart and desires. Keep in mind that this is your day and everyone basket usa will eventually understand. Choose who you’re closest to and not out of obligation or reciprocity, but do consider the repercussions of leaving someone out especially if family is involved.
If you expected someone basket usa to say yes but got a no, don’t be offended. Chances are it’s not YOU. That person might have personal reasons and it’s good to be honest about it upfront rather than bail out at the last minute. It’s a great honor to be asked to be a bridesmaid, so try and understand the reason behind it.
Simin’s reason was that she was not part of the clique with my other girl friends and was afraid that she’s the odd one out. Her worries were unfounded because she very easily assimilated into the group.
In continuation to Point 4, it’s much easier if your bridesmaids all already know one another, but it’s okie even if they don’t! It’s better they don’t know each other than hate each other. Haha.
Besides, the people you choose
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